Actually it is something of a shock to realize that I have been doing readings now for 18/20 years. I wonder in all that time how many people I have actually read for?I wonder how many of those people are still with us, and how many have passed over.

There have been a few who knew they were in the process of passing over when I read for them, some with only weeks to live. One woman in particular inspired me greatly.She had an inoperable brain tumour, and her only concern was if her husband would cope with life after she had passed away. She had planned her funeral and paid for everything, and he still did not know what was happening.

I hope that in some small way, I helped this woman to pass from this life as peacefully as possible.

I hope that I have helped the bereaved also, to come to terms with things and to move forward in their own lives.

Certainly, I have met some remarkable people, and as I sit here reflecting on all of this, I feel grateful to have met the many inspirational characters that I have crossed paths with over my life time.

My years working on Psychic fairs brought me into contact with some incredible people, they took me under their wing, taught me much and forever changed my life. What fantastic memories.

It is strange how people that we briefly cross paths with can have such a profound and meaningful influence on our outlook to life, and then like drift wood on the river are carried away by the current, in some cases never to be seen again.

It is too easy to lose contact with people, in later years to wonder where they are and what they are doing. It is just as easy to lose touch with the people in our lives even now, how many people do we cross paths with on a daily basis but never communicate with?That includes our loved ones, and suddenly, they are no longer here.

Often there is far too much that has been left unsaid, taken for granted, appreciation and love that has been left unspoken. It makes me wonder, when it is our turn to pass over, can we be sure that the people we love know that they are loved?

There is more to life, than going to work, running the home, paying the bills and cooking dinners. Take the time to laugh, talk and cry with those that are closest to you. Let them know what they mean to you, so that when the time comes to part company for a while they are left in no doubt, what they meant to you.

At the end of the day,I think that is the true purpose of a psychic reading, but why leave it to a medium to tell your loved ones for you?